A family history discovery plan with interview questions, a family tree framework, creative project ideas, and a timeline to preserve the stories before they're lost.
She tells the stories at holidays. Everyone nods. Nobody records. Nobody asks follow-up questions. Nobody writes the names, the dates, the details. When she's gone — and this is not an 'if,' it's a 'when' — those stories go with her.
The question that should be easy isn't. You know the broad strokes (grandpa came from Ireland, grandma's family was from the South) but not the details.
Every family has this shoebox. Black-and-white photos, faded color prints, someone's handwriting on the back that says 'Uncle Frank, 1962' — but which Uncle Frank? And where was this taken? The person who could label these photos is getting older every day.
Genealogy websites feel complicated. DNA tests give you percentages, not stories. What you actually need is simple: sit down with a relative, ask the right questions, record the answers, and help your child turn it into something beautiful.