You don't have to face this alone.

There's rarely a single obvious moment. The Quality of Life Assessment evaluates 7 areas (pain, hunger, hydration, hygiene, happiness, mobility, and whether good days outnumber bad). Most veterinarians and pet hospice professionals use this framework. The AI won't make the decision for you — but it helps you see through the fog of guilt and grief so you can trust what you already know.

No. Loving your pet and not wanting to lose them is the opposite of selfish. The question the AI helps you explore isn't 'do I want to let go?' (you never will) — it's 'is my pet still enjoying their life?' That shift in perspective is what helps most people find peace with their decision, whether it's today or weeks from now.

A veterinarian comes to your home so your pet can pass peacefully in their favorite spot, surrounded by their family, without the stress of a car ride and clinic. It's available in most areas through services like Lap of Love. It typically costs $250–$500 depending on location. Many families describe it as the most peaceful experience possible. The Preparation Guide covers what to expect step by step.

Most veterinarians and pet grief experts encourage owners to be present — your pet will be calmer with you there, and most people who stay say they're grateful they did. But if you can't — because of anxiety, past trauma, or overwhelming emotion — that's okay too. The AI helps you prepare for either choice without judgment.

The guide includes age-appropriate language for children. For very young kids (3-5): simple, honest words like 'Max's body stopped working and he died.' For older kids (6-12): explain the decision was made because Max was hurting and the kindest thing was to help him stop hurting. The key is honesty and inclusion — children grieve better when they're part of the process, not shielded from it.