Work out which kind of sleep problem you have first, then change the two or three things worth changing — instead of trying twenty at once.
That's a finding about insomnia, not about you. The first-line treatment is CBT-I, which outperforms sleeping tablets long-term — and almost no sleep advice mentions it.
Gasping or stopping breathing points at sleep apnoea — common, very treatable, and carrying real cardiovascular and drowsy-driving risk if it's left.
Once sleep becomes something to get right, the effort itself starts interfering. That's why there's no score and no streak here.
Staying in bed frustrated trains the association between bed and being awake. Getting up is counterintuitive and it's one of the few things that reliably helps.